You Keep Leaving Your Higher-Self on "Read"...
- Lauren
- Aug 14, 2025
- 4 min read
(And She's Getting Tired of Being Ignored)
Can we talk about something for a minute?
You know that little voice inside you - the one that whispers the truth when everything else is chaos? The one that knows exactly what you need to do, even when your logical mind is spinning in circles?
Yeah, that's your higher self. And honey, you've been ghosting her.
She's been patiently waiting with divine guidance, sending you crystal-clear intuitive hits, and basically begging you to pay attention... but you keep hitting "seen" and scrolling past like she's some random person trying to sell you essential oils.
I get it. We live in a world that tells us to trust everything except ourselves. But here's what your higher self is desperately trying to tell you - and why you need to start responding to her messages.
1. "Your Past Doesn't Define You (But You Keep Acting Like It Does)"
Let me tell you what your higher self sees when she looks at your history: wisdom earned, not mistakes made.
While you're over here replaying that embarrassing thing you did three years ago like it's your greatest hits album, she's seeing the strength you gained, the boundaries you learned to set, and the things you can now spot from a mile away.
Your higher self doesn't keep a shame folder on you. She keeps a transformation portfolio.
Stop scrolling and respond: Write down one story you keep telling yourself about why you can't have what you want because of something that happened in your past. Now rewrite it from your higher self's perspective - what did that experience actually teach you?
2. "Stillness Isn't Laziness, It's Strategy"
Your higher self is rolling her eyes at your hustle culture addiction.
She knows something our productivity-obsessed world doesn't: clarity doesn't come from doing more things - it comes from being still enough to hear what actually matters.
Every time you guilt yourself for needing a pause, you're basically telling your higher self to shut up while the adults are talking. But she IS the adult in the room, and she's trying to save you from spinning your wheels on things that don't serve your soul.
Time to listen: Give yourself five minutes of actual stillness today. No meditation app, no spiritual playlist, no agenda. Just sit with yourself and see what comes up. Your higher self has been waiting for you to stop talking long enough to hear her.
3. "Forgiveness Is Your Get-Out-of-Jail-Free Card"
Here's what your higher self knows that your ego doesn't: holding onto resentment is like drinking poison and expecting the other person to get sick.
She's been watching you carry around this emotional baggage like it's designer luggage, but all it's doing is weighing you down and giving you spiritual back pain.
Forgiveness isn't about letting people off the hook - it's about unhooking yourself from their energy so you can actually move forward.
Your higher self's prescription: Pick one person (including yourself) that you've been energetically handcuffed to through resentment. Say out loud: "I release you from my energy field. I set you free, and I set myself free." Feel that? That's what freedom tastes like.
4. "Your Boundaries Aren't Suggestions"
Your higher self is watching you say yes to things that drain your soul and wondering when you're going to remember that your energy is currency.
She knows that every time you give away your time, attention, or energy without intention, you're basically handing out free samples of yourself to people who aren't even shopping.
Boundaries aren't mean - they're sacred. They protect your light so you can shine it where it actually matters.
Reality check time: Where in your life are you feeling drained? What would your higher self do differently? Spoiler alert: she'd probably say no to a lot more things, and she wouldn't feel guilty about it.
5. "I've Been Here the Whole Time"
Here's the biggest truth your higher self wants you to know: she's not some mystical figure living in a castle in the clouds. She's you. She's always been you.
Every time you've trusted your gut and it worked out? That was her. Every time you ignored your intuition and regretted it later? That was you leaving her on read.
She's not hiding from you - you're hiding from her. Behind your fear, your logic, your need for everyone else's approval. But she's right there, waiting for you to remember that you already have everything you need.
Start the conversation: Every morning, ask yourself: "What does my higher self want me to focus on today?" Then - and this is the important part - actually do what she says.
If you need some help hearing your higher self, a session with Lauren would help.
What's real?
Your higher self isn't some perfect version of you that you need to become. She's the truest version of you that already exists, waiting for you to stop overthinking long enough to let her drive.
Some days you'll feel completely aligned with her wisdom. Other days you'll ignore her completely and wonder why everything feels hard. Both are normal. But the more you respond to her messages, the clearer they become.
She's not going anywhere. But imagine how different your life would look if you actually started listening to the wisest person you know - you.
Time to take your higher self off silent mode, beautiful soul.
She's been waiting for your reply.
Ready to strengthen your connection with your higher self? My Chakra Rebirth sessions help clear the energetic blocks that make it hard to hear your inner wisdom clearly. Because sometimes we need to clean the channel before we can receive the message.
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